A Dream Year participant once told me, “My dream is less about who I am than who I need to be.”
She was right. Dreams require us to step outside of ourselves and become someone greater than we are.
How many of us cringe at the thought of making a call? Or slink out of a room to avoid people rather than walk over to meet them? Or put off tasks that make us uncomfortable?
Pursuing a dream exposes how ordinary we are and how fearful we can be. It’s a humiliating endeavor at times.
But not measuring up to the size of our dream is no reason to give up. It simply means we have to see the dream as its own entity... and start acting like its CEO.
What CEO has trouble picking up the phone to make a call? What CEO is reluctant to delegate tasks or make a big ask? What CEO can’t plan a sales strategy and execute it?
Have you ever meet an insecure CEO?
In a society where we’re trying to cure multiple personality disorders, your dream is the one place you need it.
Your dream requires a clear distinction between ORDINARY YOU and CEO YOU.
ORDINARY YOU lets the dream get sidetracked by personal issues, time constraints and emotional drama. Just as the spoiled child of a millionaire can slack off at his father’s business, you can take your privileged status as the owner of your dream and slack off without anyone saying a word.
But CEO YOU separates your private life from your dream life. She insists that you show up for work.
ORDINARY YOU is stretching to make house payments, pay off car loans, and keep up with credit card debt. No wonder you have such little tolerance for financial risk. When your dream requires start-up capital, ORDINARY YOU looks at the budget and says, “There’s no way I can do it.”
But CEO YOU strips away the dream from your personal finances and lets it live on its own spreadsheet. This allows you to protect the dream from the challenges of ordinary life.
When your dream requires start-up capital, CEO YOU says, “I don’t know how I’m going to fund this, but I have to find a way. I have to fund it somehow.”
We have to strip away the dream from our ordinary selves and let it become an identity in and of itself. We have to protect our dream from the challenges of our own reality by giving it organization and serving as its CEO.
This way, our dream is not being led by whimsy or circumstances. It’s being led by a leader.
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Excerpt from this week's Dream Year lesson to the class of 2012