The Economy of Givers and Getters

Moving from a getter to a giver is the best way to achieve what you want.

Let's say you want to be mentored by somebody. You want them to share books, ask how you're doing, pray for you... but they're not biting. So reverse it. Pour into them. See what happens.

Let's say you want to build a network. You've got goals, and you need contacts. Try not asking for anything for a while. Instead, only give out. Watch how often your calls get returned.

In the social economy, givers always end up the biggest getters.

Comments

[Terrace Crawford]

I have certainly found this to be true with networking. Interesting thought about mentoring. I'll have to try that one.

[daniel d]

I recently read a book called "Go Giver" - nice reverse play off "Go Getter." I loved it. Better to give than receive.

[lloyd owens]

Amazing thought process. And it actually works... i read somewhere once, ...give and it shall be given to you... hmmm