We've got spiritual gift assessments coming out the wazoo. But half of our problem is knowing what we're not gifted to do. Most of us have gift disillusionment in some way or another, which makes it awkward for other people around us. Because when we're not self-aware, their only options are to 1) Struggle to be diplomatic, 2) Hurt your feelings, or 3) Lie to you, which only prolongs your deception. It's better to know what you're bad at before someone else has to tell you.