I don't plan to preach on parenting at History for a long time ~ I don't think a pastor with young children has earned the right to be heard in that area. (We'll have to import experienced speakers on that topic.) But when I do, I'm going to talk about Good to Great Parenting. In Jim Collins' book, he talks about Level 5 leaders, who subjugate their ego to the company's overall performance. We need Level 5 parents who will do the same for their children.
If I've learned anything as a pastor, it's that people's biggest struggles are rooted in their relationship with their parents. In our small group last semester, half the room admitted that they couldn't address God as "Father" in prayer because of the bad experiences they had with their earthly fathers.
A family friend of ours with a young daughter divorced the father, remarried another man, and had a baby with him. The first daughter, now 9 years old, is filled with rage toward the new baby because of how her family unit was torn apart.
In our Herndon apartment, I watched a couple (two business executives) have a new baby and immediately put her in childcare while the mom went back to work. Regardless of what the daycare marketing brochure says, that baby will spend most of her days untouched in a corner swing... all for what?
Most of the time, it's for our goals, our aspirations, our dreams. And that's Level 1 parenting.
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